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Don’t Accept Helicopter Parenting

Check out this bizarre (and sad) article from the New York Times about helicopter parenting, and note that two of the anecdotes are physician related. (Can you imagine interviewing for an attending position with your dad present?)

Along those lines, I’d recommend the New York Times best seller How to Raise an Adult by Julie Lythcott-Haimes for any parents who read this blog. (Disclaimer: Julie was one of my frosh resident assistants at Stanford.) Julie gave a great interview on Fresh Air last year. 

My policy at Insider is to work exclusively with applicants (not parents or spouses) to maintain confidentiality, avoid redundancy, and ensure candidates assume primary responsibility for their work. It’s been a winning strategy. 

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Selling Yourself

A recent, interesting article in the New York Times written by two professors – one from Harvard and one from Yale – reviewed a study they published in the British Medical Journal that finds that male-led scientific teams were up to 21 percent more likely than women-led teams to use positive adjectives to describe their research findings. Importantly, they also found that the greater use of positive language by male-led teams was linked to more citations. 

In the NYT article, the authors point out that in many realms and fields women have been found to use language that is more tentative than men. I have found this to be true when I conduct mock interviews as well. I note that, generally, women applicants are less willing to showcase their achievements, which I do believe adversely affects their candidacies. I try to counter that in practice with applicants. 

Of course, there is an alternate assessment of this issue: The “Lean Out” crowd feels that women should not have to conform to men’s patterns. While I strongly agree in theory, I have witnessed the disadvantage of being overly modest in the application process. 

This is a good discussion for your next coffee break with a friend!

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Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder, but Risk Should Not Be…

A little off the beaten track for the holidays, here is a great NYT article called “You Could Die Today. Here’s How to Reduce that Risk.” It is a fantastic conversation starter for patients and family members in your life. 

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Be an Adult: Don’t Accept Helicopter Parenting

Check out this hilarious (and sad) piece in the New York Times about helicopter parenting and note that two of the anecdotes are physician related. (Can you imagine interviewing for an attending position with your dad present?)

My policy at Insider is to work exclusively with applicants (not parents or spouses) to maintain confidentiality, avoid redundancy, and ensure candidates assume primary responsibility for their work. It’s a winning strategy.

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Be an Adult: Don’t Accept Helicopter Parenting

Check out this hilarious (and sad) piece in the New York Times about helicopter parenting and note that two of the anecdotes are physician related. (Can you imagine interviewing for an attending position with your dad present?)

My policy at Insider is to work exclusively with applicants (not parents or spouses) to maintain confidentiality, avoid redundancy, and ensure candidates assume primary responsibility for their work. It’s a winning strategy.

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About Dr. Michelle Finkel

Dr. Michelle Finkel

Dr. Finkel is a graduate of Stanford University and Harvard Medical School. On completing her residency at Harvard, she was asked to
stay on as faculty at Harvard Medical School and spent five years teaching at the world-renowned Massachusetts General Hospital.
She was appointed to the Assistant Residency Director position for the Harvard Affiliated
Emergency Medicine Residency where she reviewed countless applications, personal statements and resumes. Read more

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